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Linda Ranson Jacobs heads up the Single Parenting Division
of the National Center for Biblical Parenting. Here is
a little bit more about her personally, her testimony,
and current interests.
I have always loved the Lord – from my earliest memories,
the church and His people filled my life. As a child,
I pictured myself as a Christian wife, serving the Lord
and raising God-fearing children. However, after seventeen
years of marriage, my husband walked out and left me
to raise our two children by myself. At the time, I was
sure my dreams of serving the Lord had been destroyed
by this divorce.
But slowly, God revealed to me that my journey with Him
had not ended. He used my most devastating experiences
of a divorce and later, the death of another spouse,
to grow me and draw me closer to Him. Through the journey
of raising my children alone, the Lord gave me the gift
to speak, write and encourage single parents.
I also spent many years working with children that had
challenging behaviors. I ran a therapeutic child-care
where the majority of the children were diagnosed with
a behavior disorder or had severe emotional wounds. While
society and even churches disregard these children, the
Lord showed me that His love is the same for every child.
Over the years, He has developed a deep understanding
in me of how to work with and accommodate these children.
And He has blessed me with an incredible intuitiveness
to see into the heart of hurting children and know how
to best serve them.
After my own children were grown (and yes they are God-fearing
young adults), I began to search for an avenue to encourage
single parents and also help the hurting child. To me,
it seemed the local church looked at single parent ministries
as a burden rather than an opportunity to impact the
Kingdom. I was called to many churches around Oklahoma,
Texas and other states to speak to single parents. During
this time, I could not find any particular denomination
or faith-based organization that supported single parent
families.
In 2002, I was called to North Carolina to develop DivorceCare
for Kids (DC4K) for Church Initiative. DC4K is a program
for churches to assist them in ministering to children
with divorced parents. I have seen the immense impact
on many children devastated by divorce. Many of them
have challenging behaviors due to emotional wounds. But,
once they find Christ and feel the loving arms of a church
family reaching out to them, they find hope, help and
healing.
I love the Lord and His people with all my heart. I
don’t have the same dreams I did as a young child but
I still want to serve and honor the Lord. My own children
are now grown with children of their own. Through raising
my children alone, experiencing divorce and grieving
the death of a mate through cancer, I have learned that
life is an ever-exciting journey with twists and turns,
valleys and tall mountains. It is a wonderful journey
that never ceases to be amazing. I stand in awe of what
the Lord has done and continues to do in my life.
Currently my hobbies and interests include
growing flowers and making flower arrangements. There’s
something about fresh flowers and their aroma that fills
me with calmness. I think it’s a stress release for me
to work with something new and fresh and from the Lord.
I
also enjoy my grandchildren, playing and just loving
them. I love to read and I also play the piano and enjoy
music. I started playing the piano in 3rd grade and majored
in it in college. Currently I play for 2 different churches
in two different towns on Sunday. At the first church
I play contemporary music on a keyboard with a praise
team. The second church is a more traditional Baptist
church where I play the old traditional hymns from childhood
on a baby grand piano. I love playing the old hymns but
I also like some of the contemporary songs too. Many
days I sit down at the piano at home and will play for
hours. I learned when my husband was dying of cancer
that I could minister to God by sitting in a chapel in
a hospital playing songs of faith and deliverance to
my heavenly Father.
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